It’s not just about being sober. It’s about being seen. And finally feeling like you belong.

DAMD started as a feeling—a lonely one. We were tired of healing in isolation, of pretending we were fine while secretly googling "how to make friends as an adult who doesn’t drink.” So we created what we needed: a space for connection that’s real, awkward, beautiful, and sober.

Now we help others do the same. No shame. No substances.

We beileve in…

Close-up of a person with open mouth, showing teeth, multiple facial piercings, and closed eyes.
A young man with dark hair and blue eyes, resting his chin on his hand, looking upward thoughtfully.
Close-up of a woman's face, eyes closed, with visible tears on her cheeks, and a calm, peaceful expression.


• Connection without conditions.
• Fun without substance.
• Healing in the raw, imperfect magic of human connection.
• Dancing against our demons—even if we’re terrible dancers.
• Snacks. Always snacks.

Come to an event. Say Hi. Come be a human with us.

This isn’t about being fixed. It’s about not being alone through it all.

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